烟花~

在圣诞前夕，十二时正，灿烂的烟花，一朵又一朵得把漆黑的的天空照亮。 烟花亮起的那一瞬间，是多么的壮观，那一瞬间，就只有那一瞬间，烟花是灿烂的，就那么的短暂。 美好的事，往往就那么的快过。想回去，那充满欢笑声的童年，就好像在昨天。那纯洁的心灵，充满着好奇心，多么的天真。那已经是过去事，那单纯的心灵，正在挣扎，感情和事业，让这脆弱的心灵喘不过气来。人生，那么的短暂，每个人都想要活得有意义，可是每个人心里的“意义”都不同。活得有意义，就是活得灿烂，开心不开心，日子还是要过，喜欢还是不喜欢，我们的命运还是要接受。不开心，就试着去开心，不喜欢，就试着去喜欢，你会发现世界会漂亮得多。我答应自己，会把自己的闪亮点找出来，然后精彩的活下去。

less update~

This blog main purpose is to let go my uneasy feeling, well seems like i doing well and busy this few day, therefore i wont be updating my blog post awhile, but i got working on some of the design to change the outlook of my blog...comments are most welcome...no update mean no emo for me..^^ well lets greet a new day with a big smile xD

大笨蛋~

一次又一次，她为了自己所要的而离开，一次又一次，她用刀子在我心上刮了又刮。可是，我不管怎样告诉我自己，她是多么不值得我去爱，我的心，虽然已伤痕累累，还是不想放弃。她离开我都有一段时间了，我问自己，如果她要回来，我会接受吗？那时，第一个念头飞过“会”，这答案，多么肯定，没有犹豫。难道，她这样对我，就这么容易就忘了？我是个大笨蛋吧？伤了一次又一次，还不肯放手，这么的执著为了什么呢？这是愚蠢还是爱？我都不清楚了。心里只是不想她难过，只要她过的好，只要她开心。。就这么简单吗？我也不知了。能做的只有默默地关心，默默的祝福，默默地流泪。。。

风之子~

为什么风之子？

第一：我是水瓶座，虽然是水瓶，可是水瓶座是一个风相星。
第二：我的性格就好象风那样，飘飘然，抓摸不定。
第三：我的心情也像风那样，漂浮不定，时好时坏。
第四：世上的元素，我最喜欢的就是风，多么舒服，多么凉快。

所以就是“风”吧~

灿烂的生命图~

生命只有一个，每个人都想自己的生命是精彩的，可是往往忘了，我们的生命是因身旁的人而精彩。一出世，我们就好比是一张白纸，然后是我们身旁的人为我们上色彩；对我而言，那生命是属于那些为你上色彩的，我因他们而活，我为他们而活。为别人而活出来的生命，会比为自己活的生命灿烂的许多。

当每个人都在同一张白纸上色彩，有时会带来缺陷是难免的，毕竟我们都不是完美的。有了缺陷，那生命图就不美了，可是别忘了，那生命图不是一位画家在上色，一个画家的缺陷，说不定另一个画家能把它补回。就这样缺却补补，一副漂亮的生命图就出现了。着生命图，不能十全十美，但能尽量十全九美，那就要看，你遇到了怎样的画家。

在这世上，每个人都是别人生命图的画家。我们与每一位画家的缘分都不是偶然的，我们也不晓得他们能为我们的生命图带来什么色彩，所以我们要珍惜每一个缘分，而不是这画家为你所上的色彩是合你心意的，你就把其他的画家赶出你的生命图。再好的画家都有出错的时候，因他们上的色彩似乎完美，一个疏忽整张生命图就难以补救。

不管美不美，那生命图都是每一个画家的心血，以他们为你用心，为了报答他们，我们也因该用心的为他们的生命图上色。

All was just lies~

How much precious time has waste? How much things I have tried? What I do is only a bunch of foolish lie, that will only temporary makes me forget about her. Am I running away? How can I face it? No matter how happy i was at outside; No matter how I look ok, in the deepest of my heart, I truly understand I just cant live without her. All I did was keep myself busy, so that I have no time to think about her, but It was useless. So many friends around me, some even so close like families yet I still feel the loneliness. Maybe some will say I very weak, well what still I say but admit it?
How many times I cheer myself up, but when time past I just realize all was just acting. How many friends tried to cheer me up, but how many of them end up give up on me. Maybe I just so hopeless, loneliness is all that suit me the best.

爱的代价~

当有人爱你时，就算你不能爱回，那也至少可以珍惜吧？ 这世上，多少人渴望被爱，我们生在福中不知福，为什么一定要那爱你的死心呢？

要死心难道就只有一个方法吗？只能逃避才能死心？没办法能心甘情愿的放下？

被你所爱的人冷漠，那感觉，是没字能形容。这有错吗？，爱你有错？干嘛一定要承受着些痛？

让爱你的人为你流泪，爱你就要负出那些代价？

爱你事心甘情愿的，只希望你接受和珍惜。而你为什么，要把那爱消灭？

要爱就要痛，这就是现今的爱吧。

Everyone~

Everyone live with their own rule, sometimes what they did is just cant understand by other people no matter how they explain.

Everyone live in their own world, one everyone can easily enter it, to enter it, we need fate and thrust.

This few years i learn and i grow. I understand sometime things just out of our control, either you accept it or forget it, or else you will live in misery.

So learn to accept and forgive, and live a good day..things are not as bad as think!

Forgive or Fight?~

When someone doing something that is not seems to fair to you, but he got a understandable reason behind, can he left to run wild like this? Bare with him because that is what he is? a spoil brat or a pitiful child that lack of love? Make friends just to get benefits from them, is this sound right? I am so pissed off with this kind of person.

Of cause sometimes we need to show out some of our abilities so that we can shine, but I don't know why such a shameless person exist on earth. Some small matter also want to show off, if wan to make people envy you, just be natural and they will know who to be admire.

Recently i heard that, he lack of family love even his family is rich, all his older siblings are far more superior than him, in the eyes of his family, he was nothing than just an extra nuisance. so i understand that, he doing this just to get attentions, but should I forgive him because of the reason? or Fight for my rights?

I tried to express my uneasy feeling on his action in an indirect ways, but he just too stupid to understand. Then i tried to accept him as who he was then try pretend to get along with him, well we did get along well, but his action worsen.

Some of the friends know this already, but they just keep quite and bare with it. well i doing the same, but i don't know where is the limit of my patients. some other just come to hate him and ignore him, but he was my friend since we are primary school, i just cant do this, this really out of my character and my way of human.

Haha...this is very obvious already, who he is, i think everyone can guess out easily. So forgive or fight?

All because of love~

Becoz of love, we willing to do anything just to wan see them happy. Their smile mean of much to us.

Becoz of love, we dont mind getting hurt in the process just to make them feel better.

Becoz of love, we get hurt again and again, but we still want to love. Only them can left scars on our hearts.

Becoz of love, we can feel the satisfaction in ourself, becoz we live for them.

Becoz of love, they are everything, we are nothing. We need fall into great sadness also wan them happy.

Mapling~

This few day i will be busy mapling, so will less update my blog le...

人生短短~

人生短短，何必要过的不开心呢？可是，往往我们都处在生不由己的处境。人太渺小了，很多事都处于我们掌控以外。能做的只有默默的承受和接受。要过得开开心心，那就看你的心胸有多宽阔，看你能承受多少。这就是所谓的“人生”

Tomorrow~

Tomorrow is the last day of this semester[foundation (E/S) sem 2], this semester mostly is filled with sadness. Hope after tomorrow, the end of this semester is also the end of the sadness. Tomorrow is the last paper ->Engineering math B, after that is Maple time!!! Maple I am coming back!! Miss those friends in there so much.

Lost Myself again~

I cant recognize myself again, what do I really wan? The "Road" I walking, is that my road? Am I on the right track? Is what I am doing right? Maybe I stress over the exam and all this negative thinking come back to find me again. All these day, I keep reading a book that can burn my spirit up, but cant last for long. I wonder why? I even set a motivation quote on my phone stand by screen to keep reminding myself. Last time I set a Principe for myself to follow but now i found out that my Principe cannot apply all the time then I get very lost. I also found out that, my emotion rise can drop very often and very fast, I am tired. I really wonder when I will be ok? I hope after exam I find back Myself~

Empty Love~

I create this picture due to random inspiration i think, I wonder without "heart", a "love" still can be call perfect?

谁的天空比较美~

从小，父母都教我们做人要谦虚。而因要谦虚，我们都把我们的闪亮点都遮盖了。适当的表现自己是叫展现自己，过分的表现自己是叫自夸。因要谦虚，而把自己弄到不不起眼，有些甚至丢了自尊，自信心全都没了。那时就在问，为什么别人的天空比较蓝，比较美？而没发觉自己的那片美丽的天空都被乌云遮盖了。我承认，每个人的命运都不同，有些好有些坏，这不轮的你选。有些人因命运不如人而在那儿埋怨，好不如接受那就是你的命运，而想办法在这烂命运活得更有光彩。一出世，我们每一个都是平等的，都想一张白纸；今天的我们各有不同，那是因为生活里的点点滴滴把我们那张百纸染上了不同的色彩。而你凭什么来判断，你的色彩不如人漂亮？行行出状元，每个人都拥有自己的一套出人头地。你就是你，干嘛要跟别人比？你会唱歌，他会跳舞，怎样比？活出自我，挺着胸走下去吧~

Meaningful Morning~

Today, I follow Swinburne RC team and went to a army salvation house to do a mass cooking for those orphans. I so miss those days went I still a prefect in STTSS, that time is we cook for ourself, but we do enjoy ourself with those half cooked vegetables haha. This morning sure reminds me of the old day, even I not really help out in any cooking, or maybe a bit on stirring the curry chicken and cook the rice with pandan leaves..sweet!!^^ The cooking part i sure do enjoy, but what I found that meaningful is I make more new friends. I enjoy sharing stories and experience with them. This kind of even not just benefit the orphans; it also brings members of RC team closer to each other^^. Then this idea flash across my mind, if I manage to run a company, I sure will organize some event so that my colleagues closer to each other and more into the company, but now all i have to do is learn as much as I can..my future is still long and bright!

Live the way we are~

These few day, I learn a lot, thanks to my dear, she made me think that, our mind is can be controlled by ourself. I try to learn to only think about happy things^^...when ever i think about sad things, I tell myself don't think about it. No point thinking about it, the more you think, the more you sad and the more depress you get. What for? o.0...This is our only life, why don't just live happily? Forget about Sadnesses, Hurts, Jealous, Betray, lonely and bla bla bla..whatever negative things. Find out all the joy in your life, there must be plenty of it, and don't if it is big or small, as long as it can make you feel good then enjoy to the fullest!!

Applicate the life that give by God, live it too the way you wan, because it is YOURS!! No one can comment about it, even they do, you also can don't listen but for sure some friendly advice or comment should be take down and consider. Dream what you want to dream, be who you are, because the true self is the most special one.

Try praise other more often, you will find that, everyone will start get closer to you provide that you not over do it and do it in the right timing.

In this life, we got thing that never ending to learn, we learn to rise, we learn to fall, we learn to climb back up and shine again^^; we learn to care, we learn to love; we learn to take, we learn to give. we learn to accept, we learn to change.

We as the child of God are not weak at all, live in God word, believe in HIM, We are much more stronger than we expect.

What I trying to say is, we have only one life, why don't we live the way we want? why want hide yourself in the darkness? Fall once not mean is THE END, it just a part of life, and falls make you stronger and stronger each time. Our life is full of Wonder waiting to be discover, so whenever sadness get control of you, fast fast get over it because if you late, you might lose some of the nice things in your life. This quote is from my friend Louis, he said, Live life to Fullest!!, I totally agree with it, because it is you life, then we just simply accept it then live it to fullest, no holding back, no regret.

All the World's a stage, and all the men and women merely players: they have their exits and entrance by William Shakespeare. It mean everyone play our own role in this world no one is the copy of other and we all are shining examples. So don't cover yourself behind the darkness.

Stop giving yourself excuse to stop living, but giving yourself all reason why need moving forward. Don't stop because of the small fall, your future is way more greater than just that tiny fall. It will be a waste just because you give up your future because of that little cut!!

Sheez...i just cant stop typing=.=" I already yawning here, maybe is time to stop..this just my way to look at life, hope will help someone out there. Our life is not bad as we think, slowly go discover all the joy and fun, then you will soon find out that life is meaningful.

zzz..there i go again..ok here is it "THE END"

or maybe "TO BE CONTINUE"

十句话~

这是一个朋友寄给我的电邮，我觉得很有意思，就和大家分享吧！

Never Can Understand~

Some people at other corner of the world are out of your reach, you can never understand how they feel because we are in different world.

Some people is so close to us but we never understand what they thinking, because their heart is far away from ours.

Some thing we cant understand because we not into it..

Night~

I used to enjoy when night come, because it is quite and peaceful. After busy whole day, night is the time for me to relax my mind. now is different, whenever night come, i felt the loneliness. This feeling is so horrible, you feel you so helpless and weak.

I used to watch stars shining in the black black sky, light up the sky, but now all stars are just like a broke heart fell in pieces all over the sky.

I used to feel the gentle wind blowing at my face, but now just feel like a sorrowful song play all over and over again.

The gentle night now turn out to be a nightmare, how i wish to wake up, how i wish to go back to the old times. The time when i can lying on the grass, with gentle breeze blowing and stars accompany me until i fall asleep.

Everything is Possible~

No one born as genius, all genius are backed up with hard training and sacrifice. And anyone of us is also a genius if we wan to be. Everything is possible, as long as other can do, you can do it also. No one is more stupid than other, only how much effort you willing put in. As long you believe, as long as you willing to try, you can make miracle. Exam is near, friends lets fight with all we can. Don't judge that you already fail before you enter the exam hall, miracle does happen. Pray hard, Study hard, rest Well and eat well let us prepare for the WAR!

VIP~

Well, everyone do have our own VIP in our heart. When you sad, who did you 1st think of? When you boring whose message you hope to receive? We maybe think of different people in different time, but those are who you care and hoping they care you back as much as you did. We care about them, we hope they do the same. but things are not like that all the time. When they need you, you give your best, when you need them, they vanish. What promises, What Deal all is lies. True friend hard to find. Please Please do applicate them if you find any. Human heart is made from fresh, not rock, it is easily be broken, try don't broke other's heart all the time because it hurt. The scar will permanently remain. When other share love and care with you, you do the same, share yours with other.

Satisfy~

From time to time, since we are young we keep on dreaming to get something. We treat it as source of motivation and we fight all the best to achieve it. If we finally manage to achieve it, but we demand for the better one, then enter another battle to realize the dream. THIS is human, never will satisfy, from some point of view it is a good side of human, because of this human get more and more advance. somehow this nature of human also will lead human to destruction. For example, when a person successfully commit a small snatch and run. He will do it again another time with a more serious crime. Human always cant be satisfy because other are better than them. From my point of view, I think, human who know satisfy is those who are happy, because they no need to worry how to get better. Those kind of human is my dream, not stand out from other but happier than other. Let us think like this, you are who you are, why wan compare? You have what you more than them, You cant win them in all aspect. Be proud for what you are, because it is you!!

Future~

When think back, what ever we do somehow related to our future. In this century, in this very country, we were surrounded with information and knowledge. School and Books are our daily life, we fight so hard just for our future. No one can correctly predict or guess their future, we never know what will happen in future. All we can do is do our best for our future, everyone does hope to have a promising future. So this is life? We born, and grow up then go into school spent most of the time in it, and struggle with all we have to gain as much knowledge as we can just to get a nice job and can have a nice FUTURE. After school, we get a job, and get stress over it, everyday went home exhausted then doing the whole thing all over tomorrow. At that time, we aimed after we retired we can have a nice honey moon all around the world and this motivated us to give our best to earn as much as we can for FUTURE. Finally, we can retired, but we find out our beloved son and daughter still studying, we spent all our money we earn for them to study then the dream to travel around the world just a dream after all. Then we hope our children can excel and grow up to be useful in society in FUTURE. After that, we are walking to the end of path of life. So this is human's life? So Pathetic? We hope, We dream, We do what we can for the FUTURE, then the FUTURE just a source of motivation? something we aim for but just cant get it? In the end, we enter the graveyard no achieving any of our so call PROMISING FUTURE! Pathetic!

Exam~

Wow..my friends all starting to count down for our final exam!! War is in 2 week time!!..I think it is time to get serious, but where is my mood for books? I keep reminding myself "it is time to dig into the books" but whenever i starting to study, just revise on a few question then i still end up here writing blog =.="...Kinda hard hor, to get I this slacker into work seriously, why so hard to change from what we use to be? but anyhow, let all fight with our best, do what we still can for the WAR!!! Good luck and all the best!^^

Accept or Change?~

As human we cant be perfect, no matter how hard we try, there is still things we cant do. Same goes to we cant demand everyone to have your way. In our daily social life, from times to times, people do will have somethings that against us, and this cant be avoid. All we can do is accept the way they are or change the person. Well, accept sound more easy than changing the person but what if the person holding some really bad attitude, we just accept just like that, the person will end up still doing the same thing or even get worst. Changing the person require a lot of patient and skills, sometimes even deep understanding of that person. In my idea, this is a rather difficult and risky process, some minor error will lead to the end of a friendship. Therefore, some people rather remain quite just to make their friendship longer. But I wonder, that is friendship worthy since one party is suffering because of another party without him/her concern?

笑与哭~

在我们小小的时候，我们只会以笑和哭来表达我们的情绪。笑和哭也是一种能直接表达情绪的表情；笑就是喜欢，哭就是不喜欢。。

我们的笑容是一个上天给我们得很特别的礼物，也是我们最美的表情。很多时候，当我们情绪低落时，只要能大笑一场，什么不开心，什么烦恼都不见了。

笑不只能让自己开朗起来，笑还能让别人觉得你很善良，和蔼可亲。多笑能让整个人看起来比较年轻。^^

哭，请问你多久没哭了呢？你最后一次是为了什么而哭呢？当我们越长越大，落泪的次数就越来越少。是我们坚强了吗？还是我们不让我们自己哭？哭就是羞耻吗？因为哭象征着软弱？

而我认为，想哭就哭吧。再坚强的人也有软弱的时候，而哭就是一个很好的发泄的方法。

多笑多哭，让我们的感情丰富，展现最真的自己^^

Changing~

As Many of my friend request, i trying to write my blog post in English, but somehow English just cant express my full feeling. Maybe is because of i used to speak Chinese in my daily life and i admit that i am poor in English especially in grammar and vocab. People usually say dance to express not dance to impress, same goes for blogging..i blog to express, but still got a little bit to impress my friend^^. Everyone do hope their effort looked up by other, and this how creativity continue to flow on as well as how passion continue to burn^^...When you heard your friend say "waa your blog so nice!" how will you feel? To be honest, i will feel a little bit embarrass yet still happy hehe..>.< (Pls don't Laugh at me =.=") thats why i can continue on to update my blog..

Bad Luck..T.T

Today so suay!...want go King center buy things, walk half half then start raining...ok lor, I simply find a place to eat lo to wait rain stop..then finally rain stop liao, walk to King center then reach just realize i bring not enough money...just buy some cheap things then go home..who know the floor too slippery then i slide into drain...Ouch!..when reach home, meet a friend..he say he wan to go king center again..since i wan to go back to buy my things, so i ask him to wait me clean my scar awhile then i go back out..this time i reach King center and back smoothly^^....who know, when reach room door..i cant find my key 0.o..lucky Rocky still in room and open up the door for me..and he is going Bintulu to attend his big brother wedding dinner..he left his key for me..haiz..later need to go king center AGAIN to search for my key...T.T (wish me come back alive)

我变了~~

我变了~~变得没耐性，变得很小气。。我要回以前的我！！我几时才能长大？所有的事变得很复杂，像小孩子的我根本应付不来。。我几时才能学会做事不会半途而废？我定不了方向，一致兜兜转转，这样下去我会一事无成的！

离别~

为什么要有离别？

为什么离别那么离别的感觉那么的酸？

从小，我们就被逼面对离别。

我们七岁时，我们离别了我们的幼稚园，离别了那些慈祥的老师，那些欢乐时光都变了回忆。而回忆，随着时光流逝走了。试问，谁还记得他们幼稚园老师的样貌呢？

十二岁时，又要面对离别-小六毕业。在那六年里，我们成长了许多，懂得珍惜。因要珍惜而不想失去，那骊歌都是有泪水的陪伴呈现完的。我们的游戏，我们飞舞的操场，我们的课室，那黑板，那木凳 都变了回忆。那时不管我们怎么哭，离别还是逼近我们。答应好继续联络，可是有多少个有做到呢？就因这样，一对好朋友变成了陌生人，多么令人遗憾。

十八岁时，离别再次来问候。又是六年的时光，六年的记忆，六年的缘分，离别又要将一切拿走。就算我们多么努力想留着这一切，离别就是那么的无情，我们所有过的甜酸苦辣的日子，又再次变了回忆。我多么想能把时间停留，离别的痛，不是言语能形容的，时间停了，我就不用感受那些痛了。

为什么？为什么？人生的路就是要有波折才叫人生吗？爬起来，又跌倒，再爬起来，再跌倒。。很累，很痛！我能选择逃避吗？我真的真的不想要了。。

朋友~

什么是朋友？

朋友是有天南地北说不完的话题的。

朋友是愿意为你分担一切的。

朋友在你有需要时伸出援手的。

朋友是没有背叛，没有出卖的。

朋友是能陪你度过甜酸苦辣的时刻的。

朋友是那真心来跟你做朋友的。

朋友是会关心你的。

朋友都有一定的默契。

朋友是能和你分享心事的。

朋友不会让你孤独的。

朋友是互相玩弄，互相开玩笑的。

朋友是没虚假的。

珍惜身边所有朋友，因为他们，所以你能走到今天。多多关心你身旁有需要的朋友吧。

普通的 VS 真正的
一個普通的朋友從未看過你哭泣。 一個真正的朋友有雙肩讓你的淚水濕盡。
一個普通的朋友不知道你父母的姓氏。 一個真正的朋友有他們的電話在通訊錄上。

一個普通的朋友會帶瓶葡萄酒參加你的派對。 一個真正的朋友會早點來幫你準備並且為了幫你打掃而晚點走。
一個普通的朋友討厭你在他睡了後打來。 一個真正的朋友會問為什麼現在才打來。
一個普通的朋友找你談論你的困擾。 一個真正的朋友找你解決你的困擾。
一個普通的朋友對你的羅曼史感到好奇。 一個真正的朋友可以威脅你說出來。
一個普通的朋友在拜訪時，像一個客人一樣。 一個真正的朋友會打開冰箱自己拿東西。
一個普通的朋友在吵架後就認為友誼已經結束。一個真正的朋友明白當你們還沒打過架就不叫真正的友誼。
一個普通的朋友期望你永遠在他身邊陪他。 一個真正的朋友期望他能永遠陪在你?
把這篇傳給任何你關心的人-如果有傳回給你，代表你已經找到真正的朋友了！
一個球是一個圈子，沒有起始，也沒有結束。
它把我們結合在一起，像一圈子的朋友。
但是留給你去看的秘密寶藏就是你給予我的珍貴友誼。

全新的开始！

就是今天！我的新开始。我在兜兜转转都有一段时间了，是时候放下该放的，继续为自己的梦想和未来迈进。靠着信心，靠着主，为自己的前途奔驰，不会后悔，不会迟疑，去追求自己的闪亮点。朋友们，我回来了！

这是我！

C型恋人：每月3日、12日、21日、30日出生者

C型恋人：每月3日、12日、21日、30日出生者　　C型恋人是属于活在当下的恋人，不实际的事物，很难让他们发生幻想，因此需要很直接的、感官的吸引，像是姣好的面孔、飘逸的长发、容易吸引C型恋人，这种特质让C型恋人顺利荣登外貌协会第一号会员!玲珑的曲线、厚实的胸膛都特别......基本上C型恋人不太喜欢用理智的态度来面对爱情，认为爱情最重要的就是感觉;因此，C型恋人很喜欢和对象搞点小把戏，沉浸在一片爱情的美好气氛里，正是爱情的最大意义。因此，当感情出现问题，或是悲伤、愤怒......等负面的情绪时，都需要动脑来解决，这正是最令C型恋人最反感的部分，也是最不耐的部份。很有趣的一点是，C型恋人看起来总较同年龄的人年轻，其实活泼的性态度正是C型恋人保持青春、活力的主因之一喔!　　失恋症结点：当心啊，美丽的、刺激的事物是如此容易吸引你的目光，你的一颗心也就暂时跟着飞了，恋人们可不能常常饱受这种恐惧呀!　　你是哪种C型恋人?　　每月3日出生的C型恋人 ：好玩、活动力强、热爱生命，恋人最好懂得与他一起在社交、游乐世界里翩翩起舞。　　每月12日出生的C型恋人：既懂得掌握自己的原则，又能同时满足他人，这一型的恋人是个人风格明显的个体，让人的目光难以转移。　　每月21日出生的C型恋人 ：豁达、乐观的生活态度，不自觉地就感染他人，让人在不觉中，就已经对这种感觉上瘾。　　每月30日出生的C型恋人： 看起来是这么地活泼灵动，内涵却又有深度得很，令人喜欢与他为伍，又喜欢向他看齐。

水瓶座~

水瓶座(01.20-02.19):

　　优点

　　崇尚自由、充满人道精神、兴趣广泛、创意十足、乐於发掘真象、有前瞻性、拥有理性的智慧独立，有个人风格、乐於助人、对自己的感情忠实，求知欲强、独立、博爱、友善、忠实、可靠、有创意、有远见、有智慧、思想新颖、头脑敏锐、善於观察、富有改革精神。

　　缺点

　　缺乏热情、想法过於理想化、不按牌理出牌、打破砂锅问到底、太相信自己的判断、思想多变，没有恒心、对朋友很难推心置腹、过於强调生活的自主权、喜欢多管闲事、太过理智、情趣不足、个性怪异、过份执著、标新立异、易夸大问题、固执、墨守成规、不知变通、过於理想主义、倔强、偏激、叛逆、不合群。

　　性格倾向

　　水瓶座是在秋夜时偏南天空上的一个星座，符号表示象徵著流水。水瓶座的守护星为「天王星」，守护神为「天神」(Uranus)。

　　水瓶座的人颇富知性，且具有锐利的观察力、推测能力、以及富有冒险的开拓精神。求知欲逐渐加强后，会对任何事物都深入去思考，对於社会种种的不平等以及矛盾现象，总产生怀疑的态度或不平之心，而逐渐倾向反体制的思想。因而，有时甚至会变成孤独的异端者，或表现出较激进的行动。个性独立而执著。经常有一些激进、革新式的见地，属於新时代的人物，有丰富的同胞爱和民主意识，能够打破社会阶级和人种的差异，培育真正的友情。对於一些既成的观念，为了忠於自己的信念，会激动地试图抵抗。这种类型的人，经常见於为了达成共同目的而结朋组党，发起运动的人。

　　水瓶座的人是善变的，有时活泼，很有表白力，风趣，迷人，有时则抑郁，无动於衷和懒散。有迷人的风度，有时保守，胆子小，却是颇有表白能力，是诚实而忠心的朋友，利他主义是最高主要的特性之一，有人道主义的精神，是自负的，顽固和独立的，具有冒险精神。

　　感情上很敏感，很容易受伤害，以致公然的生气，但很快就平息，不会怀恨很久。具有活泼的心智，表现出非凡的判断力，但是受了感情和偏见的影响，判断力会变得很差。具有非比寻常的锐利观察力，能注意到细节。分析，综合，分类的能力也很快，在别人想到之前便已经能够采取行动了。这种反应是好的，只有在用到自己的感情时却是不好的。

　　有天生的理性了解人类内心的本性，同时拥有高度的容忍力，性格通常是均衡而健康的。富於研究精神，喜爱一切新颖的东西，能接受新的发现。具有好的观察能力及建立理论的能力，常常造成天才人物，发明家，科学家或成为一位精明的人类行为研究者。相信人类四海之内皆兄弟与大同世界之观念。但为达目标，不会走暴力极端的方法，会赞成举行公民自决，具有温和的态度。

　　不容易受周围环境的影响，只依赖自己心智上与精神上的能力，为自己尽最大的努力，依自己的智慧行事。解决事情的手段是合情合理，但有时候你的意见不见得合乎实际，因你的眼光是放得很远以致於短时间内似乎不可能实现。但最好所预期的事常常正确地发生，并不匆忙地与人为友，但是一旦交了朋友友谊是非常的忠贞。

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守护天使和女孩

风子本来是天上一个不起眼的天使。在一个特别的机会，上帝派他到一个女孩的身旁作为守护天使。女孩的性格很固执，风子在她身旁为她吃了不少苦头，但风子依然爱护这女孩。风子到女孩身旁，不只是守护她，上帝要风子改变这女孩。女孩从小因为有些不幸的事发生，女孩变得很自私，女孩都不受欢迎，所以女孩每天生活在孤独中。风子用尽所能，只希望女孩会改变。可惜，女孩太固执，根本都没把风子放在眼里，风子的劝告都被当了耳边风。在日日夜夜为女孩做挡箭牌，风子已全身是伤，风子的心不断地滴血，它的翅膀处处伤痕。风子知道自己所有的时间剩下不多，因为爱女孩，风子用了自己最后的力量，把自己那微弱的生命力都传给了女孩，希望女孩会被感动而改变。可是女孩还是不会改变，依然为自己想而已。风子没了生命力，已无力气了，风子流着泪，带着无限的失望和内疚，吞下了最后一口气。女孩依然带着那坏习惯，到处去伤害人，而且把风子都忘了。

What Guys really are~~

1. Guys like their gadgets & bikes more than a girl. Guys don’t actually look after good-looking girls. They prefer neat and presentable girls.

2. Guys hate flirts.

3. When a guy says he doesn’t understand you, it simply means you’re not thinking the way he is.

4. Guys may be flirting around all day but before they go to sleep, they always think about the girl they truly care about .

5. When a guy really likes you, he’ll disregard all your bad characteristics.

6. Guys go crazy over a girl’s smile.

7. Guys will do anything just to get the girl’s attention.

8. When you touch a guy’s heart, there’s no turning back.

9. When a girl says “no”, a guy hears it as “try again tomorrow”.

10. You have to tell a guy what you really want before he gets the message clearly.

11. Guys love their moms.

12. A guy would sacrifice his money for lunch just to get you a couple of roses.

13. A guy often thinks about the girl who likes him. But this doesn’t mean that the guy likes her.

14. You can never understand him unless you listen to him.

15. If a guy tells you he loves you once in a lifetime. He does.

16. Beware. Guys can make gossips scatter through half of the face of the earth faster than girls can.

17. Like Eve, girls are guys’ weaknesses.

18. Guys are very open about themselves.

19. It’s good to test a guy first before you believe him. But don’t let him wait that long.

20. Guys hate it when their clothes get dirty. Even a small dot.

21. Guys really admire girls that they like even if they’re not that much pretty.

22. If a guy tells you about his problems, he just needs someone to listen to him. You don’t need to give advice.

23. A usual act that proves that the guy likes you is when he teases you.

24. Guys keep secrets that girls tell them.

25. Guys think too much.

26. Guys fantasies are unlimited.

27. Girls’ height doesn’t really matter to a guy but her weight does!

28. Guys tend to get serious with their relationship and become too possessive. So watch out girls!!!

29. Guys are more talkative than girls are especially when the topic is about girls.

30. You can truly say that a guy has good intentions if you see him praying sometimes.

31. If a guy says you’re beautiful, that guy likes you.

32. Guys hate girls who overreact.

33. Guys love you more than you love them IF they are serious in your relationships.

用心去想想吧~~

1. I love you not because of who you are, but because of who I am when I am with you.

我愛你不是因為你是誰，而是我在你面前可以是誰。

2. No man or woman is worth your tears, and the one who is, won't make you cry.

沒有男人或女人是值得你為他流眼淚，值得的那一位，不會要你哭。

3. Just because someone doesn't love you the way you want them to, doesn't mean they don't love you with all they have.
那人不是你所想般愛你，但不代表那人不是全心全意地愛你。

4. A true friend is someone who reaches for your hand and touches your heart.
一個真正的朋友是向著你伸手，觸動你心靈的人。

5. The worst way to miss someone is to be sitting right beside them knowing you can't have them.
掛念一個人最差的方式，就是你坐在他身旁，而知道你不能擁有他。

6. Never frown, even when you are sad, because you never know who is falling in love with your smile.
就算你不快樂也不要皺眉，因為你永不知道誰會愛上你的笑容。

7.. To the world you may be one person, but to one person you may be the world.
在世界裡你可能只是某人，但對某人你可能是全世界。

8. Don't waste your time on a man/woman, who isn't willing to waste their time on you.
不要花時間在一個不會花時間在你身上的人。

9. Maybe God wants us to meet a few wrong people before meeting the right one, so that when we finally meet the person, we will know how to be grateful.
可能神要我們在遇到那位對的人之前先遇上一些錯的人，讓我們遇到那位對先生/對小姐時懂得珍惜。

10. Don't cry because it is over, smile because it happened.
不要因為完結而哭，要為曾經發生而微笑。

11. There's always going to be people that hurt you so what you have to do is keep on trusting and just be more careful about who you trust next time around.
這個世界永遠也會有一些傷害你的人，你要做的就是繼續去信人和小心你下次信的人。

12. Make yourself a better person and know who you are before you try and know someone else and expect them to know you.
在你嘗試了解其他人和盼望其他人明白你之前，先把你自己變成一個更好的人和了解你自己。

13. Don't try so hard, the best things come when you least expect them to.
不要太努力去找，最好的東西是在你最預計不到的時候出現。

缘分~~

缘分，来得不简单。试问如果没缘分，我们会认识吗？天下那么多人，你和我在茫茫人海中相遇，是那么美妙的事。。这是上天的安排，一定有特别的意义的；我珍惜每一个缘分，因为我不想到失去才后悔。。

赢/输

谁不想的第一？，谁不想比人家特出。可是，一定要得第一才能算达到目标吗？为了赢而不折手段，那个叫赢吗？赢输有那么重要吗？快快乐乐享受自己努力得回来成果。。那不是更好吗？我说，赢输不重要，过程才是有价值的。（好像听过吧？你能做到吗？）

梦想~

小时候，老师要我们写“我们的梦想”。。那时，我们的梦想都很伟大，很有理想。当我们渐渐长大，梦想不断地改变，到最后，都不知自己想要什么。在人生的路上迷了路，为什么人总是这样的呢？是受了周围的影响吧，父母，朋友和老师，不断的打击小朋友们的信心，一直告诉他们，你们的梦想台天马行空，是不可能的。。为什么？，为什么就不能让他们去追求呢？为什么要打击他们的信心呢。就这样，心理问题越来越多。。

面具！ |+_+|

我累了，每一天看着别人的脸色做人，很累！带着那不同不同的面具，为了讨好别人，为了不让别人讨厌自己~~~我要做回我自己，我就是我，干嘛要理别人怎样想。

风之子和小鸟

一个年轻的风，在偶然的机会下遇见了一只刚会飞的小鸟。风和小鸟每天都一起在青空里飞舞，那些时光充满了快乐和希望。风用尽所能，把最好的都留给了小鸟，只希望看到小鸟开心。好景不长在，每天的飞舞，小鸟开始疲倦了，迟钝的风没察觉到，就这样，小鸟摔了下去，摔得全身伤。那时刻，因为痛，小鸟决定从此不要飞翔了，而且把和风一起飞翔的快乐全都忘了。那片青空，从此少了欢笑，也开始渐渐的昏暗了。。以前的诺言，以前的希望，都变了回忆~~

Hi~~~

My 1st real blog~~^^